Let’s talk about that winter wedding invite. Exciting, right? If you’re like us, you probably worry about your dress choice already. What should you wear? Will it be on trend, will you look good in it? It’s true: there’s something magical about a winter wedding but will you be freezing in your sleeveless designer dress? You want to look chic, stay comfortable, and, of course, follow the dress code.
Before you start browsing online and shopping for that superb piece, take a look at the event’s dress code. Wedding invitations typically specify one, and it’s important to follow it. You are doing this not just out of respect for the couple, but also to avoid standing out for the wrong reasons.
Winter Wedding Dress Codes
No matter how informal the event, they will have some rules in place. Here’s how to read some of those codes:
- Black-Tie: These typically come with the whole recipe, full-length gowns, glamorous accessories, and an overall formal vibe. Think sophisticated fabrics like velvet or satin to keep you warm while staying elegant.
- Formal or Black-Tie Optional: There’s some flexibility here, but they’ll still prefer or encourage long dresses. Men can get away with a dark suit instead of a tux.
- Semi-Formal: A cocktail dress, knee-length formal dress, or even a chic pantsuit would be great here.
- Cocktail: There’s a special code of elegance with cocktail dress codes. But you will be allowed to wear playful dresses, as long as they still look elegant. The cocktail dress code will be a perfect chance for you to play with layers and show off that stylish cape or outerwear piece here.
- Casual: Not many winter weddings will encourage this, but yes, even winter weddings can be casual. You’ll have more of a free hand here, especially if the venue is more relaxed. Think of it like smart-casual: something simple yet polished.
What we recommend: When in doubt, always err on the side of dressing up. It’s better to be a little overdressed than underdressed for a wedding.
What Fabrics Should You Choose at a Winter-Appropriate Event?
Dressing for a winter wedding shouldn’t feel like a balancing act. You want style, elegance, warmth, and why not…some level of functionality. We think that no matter the code of how formal the event is, the fabric you choose plays a big role. You’ll be glad to know not all fabric choices are tulle-level thin. Some luxurious fabrics look amazing, are affordable enough, and will keep you warm.
1. Velvet
The no-brainer choice for any winter formal event, velvet is precious and cozy. It’s also quite regal and its gorgeous sheen will add instant glamour to your overall look. You cannot go wrong with it. Even if you don’t choose a velvet dress, consider pairing your outfit with a velvet blazer. For casual or semi-formal, a velvet wide-leg trousers choice will transform your look.
2. Satin and Silk
If you want to go the “classic” route, satin or silk will be your wisest choice. For winter, they work best when paired with layers. Just make sure to have a warm wrap or a stylish jacket on hand.
3. Wool or Cashmere Blends
This only goes for semi-formal or casual dress code weddings. Not the recommended choice for a cocktail or winter formal event, but if you are invited to an outdoor or rustic wedding, you can stay elegant and warm at the same time with these choices.
The Color Palette Code for Winter Weddings
You may think winter formal must mean “white” but you’d be wrong. Consider this invitation the perfect opportunity to embrace rich, deep colors that complement your silhouette and emphasize your natural beauty.
Some color ideas that are appropriate for a wedding and quite trendy this year include:
· Deep Jewel Tones
You have plenty of choices here, from emerald green to sapphire blue, and burgundy. These colors will just pop against a wintery backdrop. Bonus for you: you can pair them with metallics and elevate your overall look.
· Classic Neutrals
If you prefer a more understated look, neutral tones like black, navy, and grey are winter staples. Pair these colors with eye-catching accessories to add some flair.
· Metallics
Last but not least, you cannot ignore the sparkle. Gold, silver, and bronze aren’t just for holiday parties, they’re also great for winter weddings.
Dressing Code: Consider the Venue and Weather Conditions
Is the ceremony outdoors, or will you be inside the whole time? These factors matter the most when you’re going to choose your dress.
- Indoor
You have a bit more flexibility for indoor weddings since you won’t have to worry about freezing temperatures. You can go for that sleeveless satin dress you’ve been eyeing, but don’t forget a chic shawl or bolero to throw on when you step outside.
- Outdoor
For outdoor winter weddings, layering is going to be your saving grace. You will need to consider long-sleeved dresses, thicker fabrics, and stylish outerwear. You can even get creative with tights or high boots for extra warmth. If the dress code is semi-formal or cocktail, a tailored coat over a midi dress will keep you cozy and polished.
What we recommend: Always check the weather forecast before the event and adjust your outfit accordingly. You don’t want to be in for a surprise and discover your champagne-colored dress is going to face snow, rain, or cold winds. Such a “surprise” will drastically change how comfortable you feel in your chosen attire.
Accessorizing for a Winter Wedding
Once you’ve nailed down your outfit, it’s time to think about footwear and accessories.
Outerwear
This is non-negotiable for winter weddings, but it doesn’t have to be bulky or boring. Some choices for you include:
- Faux Fur Coats
- Tailored Coats
We recommend a longer style that hits at the knees or below to complement your dress.
Scarves and Shawls
These aren’t just practical, but also stylish enough to elevate your winter wedding outfit. A silk or cashmere scarf draped over your shoulders won’t be taking away from the elegance of your look.
Footwear
When it comes to footwear, heels are the first choice that comes to mind. But when dressing for a winter formal, you are “forgiven” if you go with different choices.
We recommend ankle boots or heeled boots. They are stylish and practical, and will not compromise your outfit.
Jewelry
Here is where you can really go bold without breaking the code. Chunky necklaces, chandelier earrings, or statement cuffs are all the perfect finishing touches to a more understated outfit.
Clutches
Your handbag should be functional yet fashionable. A metallic or embellished clutch adds a touch of glamour while keeping your essentials close at hand. Look for one with a chain strap so you can go hands-free when needed.
What Not to Wear to a Winter Wedding
So far, we’ve covered plenty of what to wear. All wedding dress codes imply there are things to avoid though.
Stay away from:
White or Ivory: This is an obvious one: it is best to avoid wearing anything that could be confused with the bride’s attire.
Too-Skimpy Outfits: While you want to look stunning, remember that it’s a winter wedding. Ultra-short dresses or open-toe shoes might leave you freezing, and they’re usually not in line with the dress codes.
Extra Casual Attire: Even if the dress code is casual, that doesn’t mean you can throw on a pair of jeans or T-shirts. Always consider something dressier, like a knit dress or tailored trousers, to stay respectful of the occasion.
No matter the dress code, just remember to have fun with your look. After all, winter weddings are a chance to embrace luxe fabrics, rich colors, and plenty of sparkle!
